“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” Philippians 4:6 NIV
Soon, those of us in the United States will celebrate Thanksgiving. We remember what the Pilgrims did, thanking God for seeing them through their first year here in their settlement. They were thankful for God saving them, after the tragic loss of others. They were grateful for the crops they harvested, after suffering hunger the year before. They were glad for friends they had made, although many of their Native American neighbors were first seen as potential enemies.
God had indeed blessed those who remained. And they were thankful.
Do you ever wonder if some of those few First Thanksgiving attendees were still stewing over all they had lost?
Did they truly feel just thankful? Or maybe it was a mixed bag of emotions.
Did they desperately miss their former way of life, if for nothing else, than their precious loved ones were still with them, they ate familiar foods, and they knew what to expect?
Maybe you have had a wonderful year, and your heart is bursting forth with thankfulness. If so, I am so happy for you! God has indeed blessed you richly!
For those who are struggling to feel thankful this week, you are not alone. Often, in the midst of thanksgiving, pain is pressing and present.
I imagine for those remaining Pilgrims Thanksgiving was a day they simply focused on what blessing they had right then and there. Maybe that present picture was not what they had imagined, or had hoped for, when they set out to cross the ocean, (life rarely is!). But after that challenging year, they clearly saw the evidence: God truly loved them.
They sat next to their neighbors, even those they might have originally assumed as enemies, and drank in the beauty of the colorful harvest. Their stomach eagerly anticipated what their noses already detected: a feast was on the way. A feast with unknown foods, but they would feast just the same.
They would be feasting and celebrating as God planned.
We are to bring our requests before God, not with worry, but with thanksgiving. When we ponder that, is there a mental murmur or grumbling? If we have a request, it is usually not something we are joyful about. Most of our requests are concerns and fears. Yet, the Bible is quite clear: we are to be anxious about nothing.
That includes not being anxious even when we don’t feel all the warm fuzzies of thankfulness.
God appreciates it when we can count our blessings even in the midst of brokenness and pain. He appreciates when we can honestly list our human limitations and ask for His help and grace.
What if we saw our petitions as requests we get to bring to God. Isn’t that something to be thankful about? That I don’t need to figure it out, just carry it to the One who will.
When we are at the end of ourselves, and still can’t get to a place of peace, then, He can reveal Himself to us because we ‘re looking.
We can acknowledge the blessings of today and still be mourning the loss of yesterday. We can miss someone dearly, and yet still praise God with whole hearts.
He loves us.
It’s a simple sentence, but not a simple concept to wrap our minds around. He does loves us, and yet He still allows us to have challenges in this life. He does that so we can learn to trust Him, no matter what. He promises He will redeem everything, (Romans 8:28) and He does. Even when it takes a lifetime.
I pray I can name the blessings of the present, no matter what I lost in the past. I pray as I search for how to present attitudes of thanksgiving, my heart will heal, and I will indeed see the blessings of today as I get to bring the hurts of my heart to my loving Father. Will you join me in praying for just that?
Prayer: Dear Heavenly Father, You are indeed a good Father, even in the tough, tragic times. As our focus this week turns toward Thanksgiving, direct our hearts to recount our blessings, even amidst the pain of recent loss. Help us to support those who are struggling and to find joy and rejoice with those who have much to celebrate. Thank You, that we not only can, but get to come to You. You promise to carry our burdens and give us that peace that passes understanding. Thank You, In Jesus’ name, Amen.